Jennifer Lopez jokes she is 'done' with marriage at her Spain concert

Jennifer Lopez, 55, talked about her marriage plans during her recent Up All Night concert in Europe. The Love Don't Cost a Thing hitmaker is in no mood to tie the knot yet again after four divorces. 

As Us Weekly reported, while performing in Bilbao, Spain, she reacted to a fan-made sign, asking,

"J Lo, marry me?"

Jennifer Lopez reacts to a fan asking to marry her:

“I think I’m done with that. I’ve tried that a few times” 😂 pic.twitter.com/zoQqxse0Tl

— Jennifer Lopez Updates (@JLopezUpdate2) July 16, 2025

She seemed quite certain of not getting married for the fifth time during her energetic show of the European leg of her tour.

Jennifer Lopez is clearly done with marriages 

On July 16, Lopez was seen singing her hit songs during her recent Up All Night show in Bilbao. A small fan interaction has now turned into a viral and hilarious moment, showing a glimpse of her thoughts on getting wed.

In the X (formerly Twitter) post by Jennifer Lopez Updates (@JLopezUpdate2) captioned "Jennifer Lopez reacts to a fan asking to marry her," she can be heard answering without hesitation,

"I think I am done with that. I have tried that a few times."

Lopez's candid response made the crowd go gaga.

The If You Had My Love songstress kickstarted her Up All Night tour on July 8, 2025, at the Parque de Tafisa in Pontevedra, Spain. As LOS40 reported, the tour's schedule follows performances in Cádiz, Málaga, Madrid, Barcelona, Bilbao, and Tenerife in Spain, followed by jetting off to other parts of Europe, Central Asia, and the Middle East.

Presently, she has plans to host across Europe. Her much-awaited Up All Night tour will conclude in Kazakhstan on August 10, 2025, according to Us Weekly.

A look at Jennifer Lopez's ex-husbands and divorces

Ojani Noa

In 1997, Jennifer Lopez got married, for the first time, to Ojani Noa. According to a Page Six report, the renowned singer never shared too many details about her marriage that lasted for around 11 months. The estranged couple got divorced in 1998.

Lopez tied the knot to Noa while she was rising to immense global fame in the entertainment industry. In an August 2022 conversation with the Daily Mail, as Us Weekly cited, he looked back on his failed marriage and shared,

"Jen loves being in love, but she's been engaged six times. Ben is husband No. 4. I was husband No. 1, and she told me I was the love of her life. When we lay in bed on our wedding night, she said we would be together forever."

During the chit-chat, he opened up about Lopez's stardom, adding,

"We fell in love when she was already famous. But during our marriage she became a megastar. For years it was too painful to talk about. I wanted to lie low and live my life. But when I saw she got married to Ben, who is a good guy, the feelings came flooding back."

Cris Judd

After Noa, Jennifer exchanged vows with Cris Judd in 2001. As Us Weekly confirmed, they began dating in 2000 after working on her Love Don’t Cost a Thing music video. While they started dating right after and got wed within a year, they were together only till 2002. 

During the separation, Cris spoke with Us Weekly in an exclusive interview. Without detailing much about his divorce, he noted,

"I can't give you the answer as to why her relationships don’t work. I think that it’s that it is work. It’s whether you want to work on it or not. Everyone has baggage and problems. It's whether you want to deal with those problems. When you sign up to get married, you can’t just walk away."

Marc Anthony

After her second divorce, The Wedding Planner star dated Ben Affleck and got engaged, too. However, they parted ways in 2004. Later that year, she went ahead to get married for the third time. 

Lopez married Anthony and were together till 2011. During their married years, the duo welcomed twins Max and Emme in February 2008. 

They confirmed their decision to call it quits in 2011, as per Us Weekly, and released a joint statement, announcing,

"This was a very difficult decision. We have come to an amicable conclusion on all matters."

Though they have divorced and gone ahead with their lives, they continue a cordial friendship and co-parent their twins. 

In 2017, Jennifer appeared on an episode of Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen. While discussing her bond with her ex-husband, she explained,

"Marc and I are good how we are right now. There's a reason we're not together. But we're great friends, and we're parents together. That has been even better for us. We met working, and that’s where we’re really magical. When we’re on stage together, and so we leave it there. That’s it."

In 2019, the global performer spoke candidly about her previous marriages during a conversation on the Today show. As confirmed by Us Weekly, she recalled her thoughts of getting married to her former husband, sharing,

"I have been married three times. And once was nine months, and once was 11 months. I was very young the first two times I tried to get married. I would say try to get married. I felt like if I got married I felt like I would always have somebody, but that’s not how life works."

Ben Affleck

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck in the 2000s, the chemistry was undeniable pic.twitter.com/I4xwCpbtGh

— 𝓐☆ (@heelsculture) July 9, 2025

While Jennifer has always been in the spotlight for both her personal and professional anecdotes, her most publicized romance was reported with Ben Affleck. Their whirlwind romance began in 2002 with Affleck proposing to her in November 2002. The former beaus were supposed to get married in September 2003. However, they cancelled their plans and broke their engagement the next year.

Ben and Jennifer's romance rekindled in 2021, and he popped the question in April 2022. Within three months of getting engaged for a second time, they eloped to get married in Las Vegas in July 2022.

Soon, their marriage was hit by a rocky patch, eventually leading to them getting divorced last year. After their union, the singer filed for divorce from Affleck at a Los Angeles court on August 20, 2024, according to Us Weekly. According to the official documents, they got separated on April 26. Even before the pair confirmed their relationship status, netizens began speculating a rift in the celebrities' married lives.

Last year in May, Us Weekly reported the news of Ben shifting to someplace else from the couple's swanky home in Beverly Hills. Rumors alleging a divorce were further sparked when they did not express thoughts and wishes for their second wedding anniversary on social media.

At that time, a source revealed to the outlet that the Good Will Hunting actor and the Selena actress were "living separate lives." According to the unnamed individual,

"Jennifer suggested they just take time to figure it out."

According to a People report, Jennifer listed her luxe property in Beverly Hills, which she shared with Ben. However, she took it out of the listing on July 2 as she had yet to find a customer willing to purchase it.

An insider told the outlet,

"While they've been hoping to sell the property, they've also been hesitant to take a big loss. They lowered the price to get more interest and when this didn't happen, they were advised to take it off the market. It was a business decision that they made together."