Who was Ian de Metz? All about influencer Hannah Carnat‑Gronnerud’s Fiancé who died shortly before his wedding

Over the past week, the online community has been rocked by the sudden and tragic loss of Ian de Metz—fiancé to body-positivity influencer Hannah Carnat-Gronnerud—just weeks before their much-anticipated wedding. Known to many as “Thatgrlhannah,” Hannah shared her joy and excitement as the countdown ticked down toward their August 31 ceremony in Calgary. But on July 17, Ian’s life was cut short in a fatal workplace accident.

The announcement came via a heartfelt Instagram post from Hannah’s friend Nathalie “Nat” Berard who took over Hannah’s account to break the devastating news. As grief rippled through their circle, friends and fans alike have rallied with support, launching a GoFundMe to help ease funeral expenses and give Hannah time to heal. So who was Ian de Metz—and how did this promising love story end in heartbreak?

“Who was Ian de Metz?” A glimpse into the man behind the fiancé

Ian de Metz was, by all accounts, a warm-hearted soul with a generous spirit, traits praised by Nathalie “Nat” Berard in the GoFundMe tribute: “He brought light to every room he entered and left a lasting impression on everyone he met.” Though he mostly stayed behind the scenes, Ian became known to Hannah’s 100K-plus social media followers through cute snippets of daily life, tender kisses, and shared laughter. Their final video together, posted July 9, is a snapshot of pure affection—Hannah and Ian caught in a gentle kiss, a testament to their easy chemistry.

Ian and Hannah had been deep into wedding prep, counting down the days with giddy excitement. Hannah’s Instagram from late June was practically radiating wedding fever: “68 days until I marry my baby!! My literal SOULMATE ANGEL CHILD…” she gushed, complete with hearts, engagement rings, and bride-and-groom emojis. The couple had planned an August 31 celebration in Calgary, surrounded by loved ones and well-wishers.

But on July 17, tragedy struck. According to Nathalie’s message, Ian “was tragically killed in a work accident.” The tone was one of heartbreak and raw shock: “It is with the heaviest heart that I have to share the news… of the passing of Hannah’s beloved husband, Ian.” The funeral was arranged swiftly, and the GoFundMe launched to cover mounting costs—funeral services, travel, therapy, and unexpected financial stress. As of July 20, the fund had raised over CAD 18,000 from nearly 200 donors.

Ian’s impact extended beyond just being Hannah’s fiancé. Nathalie’s tribute notes his generosity and warmth, underscoring how deeply he was cherished by family and friends alike.

“Now, it’s our turn to carry some of the weight for Hannah and family, just as Ian would have done for any of us,”

the post reads.

It’s clear he was more than just part of a love story—his loss has left a huge void in many lives.

For Hannah—who gained recognition online for promoting self-confidence, mental wellness, and body positivity—the impact is particularly profound. Ian had become part of that narrative, a partner in her journey and a constant presence in her content. Now, the joyous tale of planning a future together has come to a sudden halt, leaving her and her followers in collective mourning.

About the influencer: Hannah Carnat‑Gronnerud

Hannah Carnat-Gronnerud (better known online as “Thatgrlhannah”) has quietly grown a loyal tribe of over 60,000 followers on Instagram by keeping things real: honest chats about self-love, mental health, and what beauty really looks like. Before all this heartbreak, she and Ian were constant co-stars in her feed—sweet kisses, wedding planning updates, goofy laughs.

Now, her grid has shifted to quiet tributes and photos that speak volumes, each one a gentle nod to the love they shared. Though she’s taking a step back from posting, her fans haven’t gone anywhere, sending virtual hugs, prayers, and even financial help. Through all the pain, one thing shines through: their bond touched everyone who watched their story unfold.