The Bachelor's twist of bringing back an ex-boyfriend wasn't romantic, it was unsettling

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"Although, as Becca points out, this entire mission could be seen as Notebook-style romantic, it actually feels decidedly unsafe," Ariana Romero says of Monday night's twist. "It’s obvious from her reaction to Ross standing in her doorway — staring at him in shock and then the camera — no one asked her if this invasion of privacy was okay. That means her location was shared against her will with someone she purposefully removed from her life. Although Ross repeatedly claims he’s thought about her nonstop since their breakup, Becca doesn’t share the same sentiments despite their seven-year dating history."