People reports that Randolph wasn't given a head's up that Underwood would come out as gay on last week's Good Morning America. "Cassie found out Colton is gay the same time that everyone else did," a source tells People. The source said Randolph, who filed a restraining order against Underwood for allegedly abusive behavior, is having a tough time being back in the headlines. "It was a very traumatic time for Cassie," said the source. "It's tough to be in the headlines and revisit painful memories."