The ABC reality show broke format for a cringeworthy moment that was akin to Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Becca Kufrin's breakup on The Bachelor last year. "The twist ending of a star proposing a relationship to her second pick is not the first time a lead has ended up with a runner-up," says Jackie Strause. "Luyendyk Jr. and Jason Mesnick both famously broke it off with their winners and proposed to their runner-ups. While both men went about their TV swaps the wrong way and were villainized (even though they each remain with the women they picked in the end), this marks the first time a star will be collectively celebrated for trading in her winner for the one that got away." ALSO: The five most "WTF" moments from The Bachelorette finale.